Tuesday, July 18, 2006
Bad habits die hard
I made a new promise to myself about getting rid of an uncontrollable addiction I've been having for a LONG time. I would assume it's common practice among all guys because we are the intended audience of this mess, so I call it.
I am talking about the very lustful Porn industry. I get "turned on" more with the m2m, twink, sugar daddy, Bears, bareback, blowjob action that Gay porn features. The reason I want to stop gazing and relieving my aroused phallus from its stress is because I am just bored of it. Its really getting old and I have re-evaluated my views on sex and pleasure. I think romance and love is more satisfying than my lust-filled desires and sexual fantasies.
So I am publishing this entry because writing of my commitment to diminish my gay porn addiction may be more helpful than leaving my thoughts unwritten. I tend to follow through my everyday things and goals if I write them down. So here's the post you may be laughing at. :)
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[[V.J. Civic; 7/18/2006 06:52:00 PM 
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I'm not entirely sure what there is to laugh at.
While, I don't personally view it as a mess, I do see your point of view. And if this aspect of, not just gay male, but male behavior in general is not appealing to you then you should put it aside.
I agree with you definitively on one thing you wrote here. The prospect of true love is infinitly preferable to mild sexual fantasy.
While, I don't personally view it as a mess, I do see your point of view. And if this aspect of, not just gay male, but male behavior in general is not appealing to you then you should put it aside.
I agree with you definitively on one thing you wrote here. The prospect of true love is infinitly preferable to mild sexual fantasy.
No laughter here either. While porn has it's place, I think that you're absolutely right in the fact that love and affectionate behavior (not sex) are far more appealing.
I have to admit that my favorit pictures are actually of two guys hugging fully clothed, or a romantic picture of anyone kissing anyone else.
And as to sports? Well, I follow the Blue Jays and have for over 20 years now. I don't follow it for the guys, I just love the game (and wish that I could actually play it but I suck at sports for the most part).
Nice to see ya back.
I have to admit that my favorit pictures are actually of two guys hugging fully clothed, or a romantic picture of anyone kissing anyone else.
And as to sports? Well, I follow the Blue Jays and have for over 20 years now. I don't follow it for the guys, I just love the game (and wish that I could actually play it but I suck at sports for the most part).
Nice to see ya back.
Thanks for the sweet birthday message. :) Hope that everything is going swell for ya!
*oh and the memo was supposed to be faxed out but my assistant Sherbert doesn't know how to work a fax machine yet)
*oh and the memo was supposed to be faxed out but my assistant Sherbert doesn't know how to work a fax machine yet)
you're the most qualified person to set your goals and assess what's positive vs. harmful in your life. just don't be so hard on yourself :)
shit vj u should c the porn i got and i started when i was 16 havin my mom buy it 4 me. she told me she would rather watch it in my room and jack as much as i wanted least she knew i was safe that way! haha!
V.J., I see it the same way. Porn is boring. Actually I have a huge pile of porn DVDs that I got to review and write articles in our magazine. I've never even watched one. They're all still sealed.
I think romance and love is more important than sex. Or better, sex is more fun with someone you really love.
... and I still have to laugh about the comment of Ryan. His Mom is so cool. :)
I think romance and love is more important than sex. Or better, sex is more fun with someone you really love.
... and I still have to laugh about the comment of Ryan. His Mom is so cool. :)
VJ
Like everything else in life, moderation is the key. Porn is bad when it takes the place of real life instead of being just a casual substitute. There is no black and white, only shades of gray.
Another thing I find fascinating is that, when a subject such as this is posed to a group of gay men, you will mostly get the answer that love and romance is desired and sex is better with the one you love. If this is really the case, why do gay men search out anonymous sex so freely? Is it because they cannot find love or is it they do not want to find love?
Like everything else in life, moderation is the key. Porn is bad when it takes the place of real life instead of being just a casual substitute. There is no black and white, only shades of gray.
Another thing I find fascinating is that, when a subject such as this is posed to a group of gay men, you will mostly get the answer that love and romance is desired and sex is better with the one you love. If this is really the case, why do gay men search out anonymous sex so freely? Is it because they cannot find love or is it they do not want to find love?
Hey,
It doesn't matter if you're gay or straight. You want to get rid of porn because you're bored with it.
So do it.
Nothing beats a face-to-face intimate relationship. Nothing.
You deserve it. Go for it.
Give porn the kick it deserves. You are entitled to the best in life and that includes healthy, honest, loving relationships.
Tess Marsall www.Kickporn.com and www.Kickpornblog.com
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It doesn't matter if you're gay or straight. You want to get rid of porn because you're bored with it.
So do it.
Nothing beats a face-to-face intimate relationship. Nothing.
You deserve it. Go for it.
Give porn the kick it deserves. You are entitled to the best in life and that includes healthy, honest, loving relationships.
Tess Marsall www.Kickporn.com and www.Kickpornblog.com
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